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It's Always Been You.

It's Always Been You.

Rachel Monica 42 Episodes Sep 16, 2026

It’s Always Been You is a podcast about love, relationships, consciousness, manifestation, and healing. Host Rachel Monica explores how your relationship with yourself shapes the love you experience and the life you create. Through personal stories, honest conversations, spiritual perspectives, and mindset shifts, the show examines healing the past, changing limiting beliefs, choosing yourself, and creating fulfilling relationships. It focuses on becoming the woman who can receive the life she desires.

Episodes

If You’re Scared You’ll Never Find Love, Listen to This
If You’re Scared You’ll Never Find Love, Listen to This Sep 16, 2026 1222 In today’s episode, “If You’re Scared You’ll Never Find Love, Listen to This,” I’m talking directly to the woman who secretly wonders…“What if it never happens for me?”Maybe you’re watching your friends get engaged, married, and start families.Maybe you’ve been through relationships that taught you what you don’t want.Maybe you’ve done so much healing, raised your standards, and become so much mor
What Your Love Life Reveals About Your Self-Awareness
What Your Love Life Reveals About Your Self-Awareness Sep 9, 2026 1308 In today’s episode, “What Your Love Life Reveals About Your Self-Awareness,” I’m talking about something I think so many women think they have mastered…Self-awareness.Because you can know your attachment style.Know your triggers.Know your patterns.Know exactly what your ex did wrong.And still not actually be as self-aware as you think you are.In fact, one of the biggest things I’ve been realizing
Why You’re Not Seeing Results Yet (Manifestation Isn’t Enough)
Why You’re Not Seeing Results Yet (Manifestation Isn’t Enough) Sep 2, 2026 1835 In today’s episode, “Why You’re Not Seeing Results Yet (Manifestation Isn’t Enough),” I’m talking about one of the biggest things I’ve realized about creating the life you want…You can’t just envision the life. You have to participate in creating it.Because we’re living in a time where manifestation is everywhere.And I believe in all of that.But there’s another side to creation that we don’t talk
The Gap Period Between Toxic Love & Healthy Love
The Gap Period Between Toxic Love & Healthy Love Aug 26, 2026 1532 In today’s episode, “The Gap Period Between Toxic Love & Healthy Love,” I’m talking about one of the most confusing and emotionally challenging seasons so many women experience…The space between knowing what you no longer want and finally experiencing what you do.Because leaving a toxic relationship is one thing.But what happens after?When you've raised your standards, started healing, wa
The Secret to Everything You Want
The Secret to Everything You Want Aug 19, 2026 1183 In today’s episode, “The Secret to Everything You Want,” I’m diving into the realization that completely changed the way I see love, manifestation, confidence, success, purpose, and the life I’m creating…The answer has always been you.Because we spend so much of our lives looking outside of ourselves for the thing that will finally make everything click.The relationship.The money.The career.The va
Finding Your Soul Purpose (Without the Pressure)
Finding Your Soul Purpose (Without the Pressure) Jul 29, 2026 1363 In today’s episode, “Finding Your Soul Purpose (Without the Pressure),” I’m diving into one of the biggest fears so many of us carry…“What if I never figure out what I’m meant to do with my life?”Because somewhere along the way, we were sold the idea that by twenty-one, twenty-five, or thirty, we should have everything mapped out, our career, our purpose, our relationships, and our future.But what
You Are the Universe Experiencing Itself: The Truth About Manifestation
You Are the Universe Experiencing Itself: The Truth About Manifestation Jul 22, 2026 1936 In today’s episode, “You Are the Universe Experiencing Itself: The Truth About Manifestation,” I’m diving into manifestation from a much deeper perspective than the one we usually hear online.Because manifestation isn’t just about vision boards, affirmations, or trying to attract something that exists outside of you.What if the things you desire aren’t separate from you at all?What if the love, ab
The Root of Every Insecurity (And How to Heal It)
The Root of Every Insecurity (And How to Heal It) Jul 15, 2026 1427 In today’s episode, “The Root of Every Insecurity (And How to Heal It),” I’m diving into something that sits underneath so many of the struggles we experience in love, friendships, confidence, money, and the way we move through the world…Our sense of worth.Because I don’t believe any of us are born feeling unworthy.We don’t come into this world believing we’re too much, not enough, difficult to lo
The Life You Were Taught To Want vs The Life Your Soul Desires
The Life You Were Taught To Want vs The Life Your Soul Desires Jul 8, 2026 1351 In today’s episode, “The Life You Were Taught To Want vs The Life Your Soul Desires,” I’m diving into one of the biggest questions we rarely stop to ask ourselves…“Do I actually want this life… or was I taught to want it?”Because so many of us are chasing a version of success that was handed to us.The constant productivity.The endless hustle.The belief that being exhausted means you’re doing enoug
How to Become Confident (Remembering Who You Actually Are)
How to Become Confident (Remembering Who You Actually Are) Jul 1, 2026 2124 In today’s episode, “How to Become Confident (By Remembering Who You Actually Are),” I’m diving into one of the biggest misconceptions about confidence...That it's something you have to earn.But you weren't born doubting yourself.You learned to.Somewhere along the way, many of us were taught to shrink ourselves, question our instincts, worry about what other people think, and slowly disc
How to Trust Divine Timing in Love
How to Trust Divine Timing in Love Jun 24, 2026 1933 In today’s episode, “How to Trust Divine Timing in Love,” I’m talking about one of the biggest fears so many people carry when it comes to relationships...Because when you desire love but it hasn't arrived yet, it's so easy to believe you're doing something wrong, that you're behind, or that you've somehow missed your chance.But what if none of that is true?What if your pa
3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People
3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People Jun 17, 2026 2196 In today’s episode, “3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People,” I’m breaking down the three biggest shifts that completely changed the way I approached dating, relationships, and finding a partner who was actually aligned with the life I wanted to create.Because dating is not about getting chosen.It’s not about convincing someone to like you.And it’s definitely not about trying

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