Diary of a Swinging Couple
A Canadian couple shares their personal experiences and insights as they navigate the swinging lifestyle, offering an honest and candid look into their journey.
Episodes
So You Booked a Hotel Takeover. Now What?
In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly how we get ready for a hotel takeover. From the practical prep to the social side, we walk you through our step-by-step approach so nothing gets left to chance. We talk about making connections beforehand, engaging in the event chats, and building a little familiarity before you ever step foot in the hotel. Showing up already knowing a few faces can com
Costumes On Inhibitions Off
Halloween 2025 did not disappoint. In this episode, we recap a wild and wonderful night out, including hitting a club for the first time in years, rolling deep with some amazing friends, and reconnecting with that carefree, electric energy that only comes from dressing up and letting loose together. From dancing and laughing to late-night adventures, we break down what made this Halloween one for
The Comeback Episode: Not New Year’s Edition
We’re back!
After a bit of a hiatus, we’re finally back behind the mic and catching up on everything that’s been going on. In this episode, we talk about where we’ve been, what we’ve been up to, and why life pulled us away for a bit. It’s a relaxed, fun check-in as we ease back into things, share some laughs, and reset the tone for what’s coming next.
We also dive into M4’s Not New Year’s event ho
Revisiting Mike's Favourite Episode: The Gatsby Party
This time Mike takes us back to one of his favourite memories: The Gatsby Party. Think glitz, glam, and a night full of surprises that didn’t exactly end the way we imagined. Between the energy of the party and the unexpected twists, it’s one that definitely left its mark on us.
We also share how Chloe faced down some of her fears that night and what we both took away from the experience. It was f
Revisiting Chloe's Favourite Episode: Cancun Boobs Cruise
We are heading back to one of Chloe’s all-time favourite memories: The Cancun Boobs Cruise. This episode is all about revisiting the sun, the fun, and the absolute chaos of that wild day on the water. From who hops on board to what actually happens once the drinks start flowing, we dive back into the details that made it unforgettable.
Whether you have been curious about what really goes down or j
We Went on a Date
In this episode, we let you peek into what a date looks like for us, from the butterflies before to the fun while we are out and everything in between. We share our little rituals for getting ready, the vibe we like to set once the date starts, and the moments that turn an ordinary night into something unforgettable.
We also talk about how we decide if we want to see someone again. Do they spark t
Booty Betrayal at the House Party
In this episode, we spill all the details from a recent house party that turned out to be way more than just drinks and small talk. From meeting some amazing new friends to jumping into games that had everyone laughing (and blushing), it was the kind of night that reminds us why we love the lifestyle community so much.
Of course, no party recap would be complete without a little playful embarrassm
Reclaiming Intimacy
In this episode, Mike and Chloe dive into the topic of reclaim sex, what it is, how it shows up in the lifestyle, and why the name doesn’t quite sit right with them. They break down the common definition, unpack the emotions behind it, and explore how couples use it to reconnect after an experience with others.
From sharing when they feel their best sex happens, to telling real life stories of tim
The Great Blow-Up Doll Challenge
Mike and Chloe are back at Sandy Bottoms for one of the wildest, busiest weekends of the year. The campground was buzzing with energy, laughter, and just the right amount of chaos. From outrageous blow-up doll races to magnum condoms making surprise appearances, it was a weekend where nothing was off-limits and everything was on the table.
In this episode, they dive into the hilarious highlights,
Lights, Camera, Misinformation
In this episode, Mike and Chloe take on Hollywood’s wildest takes on swinging and non-monogamy. From Friends and Seinfeld to Eyes Wide Shut and Wanderlust, we break down how movies and TV shows have portrayed the lifestyle over the years. Some scenes had us laughing, others had us rolling our eyes, and a few actually hit pretty close to home.
We’re diving into the sexy, the strange, and the totall
Birthday Shenanigans: Lost Shirts and Good Times
The long-overdue birthday episode is finally here. We’re catching you up on how we each celebrated our big days, from sweet surprises to spicy adventures. Whether it was intimate moments, unexpected gifts, or just the chaos that seems to follow us around, we’re breaking it all down and laughing our way through the memories.
Of course, it wouldn’t be one of our celebrations without at least one shi
One Night Stands
In this episode, Mike and Chloe explore the idea of one night stands through a lifestyle lens. Do they really exist, or is there always some kind of connection? They break down what counts, what doesn’t, and how their perspective has shifted over time. Plus, they share whether they’ve had a one night stand of their own.
They also dive into the question of satisfaction—can a one night stand really
Misconception in the Lifestyle
In this episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple, Mike and Chloe are going full mythbuster mode. From “swingers clubs are dirty” to “swingers don't love each other,” they’re diving into the biggest misconceptions and myths about the lifestyle. Are they real? Are they fake? Are we just here for the snacks?
Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned vet, this episode brings some laughs, real talk, a
We've Been Banned From Instagram!
We got banned on Instagram!
In this episode, we share the full story of why our account was taken down and what it taught us about censorship and community guidelines when it comes to lifestyle content.
We also dive into some of the most popular social media platforms—like Instagram, Reddit, Facebook and Twitter/X—and talk about how (and if) they can actually be used to meet other lifestyle couple
Hooray for Boobies w/ Ethan & Veronica (aka Smooshprints)
In this episode, we sit down with Veronica (aka Smooshprints) and Ethan to dive into their journey in the lifestyle. We explore how their love for art and creativity led them to express themselves in new, exciting ways—eventually evolving into creating spicy content. From their first steps into the LS to blending passion with business, they share their experiences, challenges, and what it means to
The Swinger in the Mirror w/ Kim Lee
In this episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple, we’re joined by the incredible Kim Lee, author of The Swinger in the Mirror. Kim shares her personal journey into the lifestyle, the inspiration behind her book, and the lessons she’s learned along the way.
We dive deep into key topics like handling jealousy, the importance of open communication, and the big question many people ask: Is the lifestyle
TABOTA!
In this episode, we sit down with Matt and Amanda, the dynamic duo behind TABOTA—the masterminds behind unforgettable events like VIN and Sandy Bottoms. They take us back to their early years, sharing the challenges they faced in building a thriving lifestyle community. From overcoming obstacles to curating some of the most sought-after experiences, we dive into their journey and what drives their
The VIN Experience: Candid Conversations with Lifestyle Couples
In this special episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple, we take you along on our exciting trip to Valentine’s in Niagara! From the electric atmosphere to the unforgettable connections, we dive into all the fun and experiences that made this getaway one for the books.
This time, we brought our traveling mic's along to capture the heart of the event. We had the pleasure of interviewing five different
I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It
In this episode, Chloe and Mike dive into the wild and wonderful world of bisexuality in the swingers' lifestyle!
We share our experiences meeting bisexual couples, the spicy encounters we've had, and why bisexual women seem to be everywhere—while bisexual men are harder to find. Is it stigma? Social norms? Or are guys just missing out on all the fun? Join us as we unpack the double standards, sha
Chloe did WHAT?!
Happy New Year!
We’re back and ready to spill all the steamy details from this year’s holiday house party! If you’ve been with us for a while, you know this party was where our love affair with house parties began. But this time? Oh, it was bigger, bolder, and way sexier.
Let’s just say Chloe brought her A-game and did a few things that left Mike—and the rest of the room—absolutely mesmerized.
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Sex Work w/ Angelique
She's back! You asked, and we delivered. Angelique is back on the podcast!
In this episode, Angelique discusses her experience with sex work. As you may recall, she spent some time as a stripper and in this episode we learn more about that experience. We discuss how she started, what her favourite memories were, what her first lap dance was like, and much more. You're going to love this episode!
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Our Secrets Hideaway Review
It's finally here! Our review of Secrets Hideaway.
Join us as we review our stay at Secrets Hideaway Resort. We dive in to the look, the cleanliness, the entertainment, the playrooms, and (most importantly) the food! Would we recommend Secrets to our friends? Would we go back to Secrets? Did Chloe finally get her 30-person orgy?! All these questions, and more, are answered in this episode!
Make su
We're Live with Fredrick & Barbie!
We're back with another special episode, live from Secrets Hideaway!
In this episode we sit down with Fredrick & Barbie and talk everything Secrets Hideaway. We dive into Secrets origin story, the troubles they ran into at the start, how they overcame them, and the work that has gone into making Secrets Hideaway what it is today. We really enjoyed this interview and we know you will as well!
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Live From Secrets Hideaway
We finally made it! We're live from secrets!
Follow us in this very special episode where we give you the live play by play from Secrets! We made so many new friends and got the chance to hang out with old ones!
Hope you enjoy!
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Our First House Party!
It finally happened! We had our very first house party. In this episode we look back at how we prepared for the house party, who we invited and, most importantly, how the night went. Was Chloe nervous for no reason? Did we have enough space for everyone? Was there a 30-person orgy?! Listen in as we answer all these questions and more!
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The Single Male Experience w/ Jake
Welcome back for another special episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple!
In this episode we sit down with Jake, a single male in the lifestyle, and talk about his experiences as a single male trying to navigate the lifestyle. We talk about how he found himself entering the lifestyle, his first experience, his favourite (and least favourite) experience, and we get into why single males get a bad rep
Orgies!
On this episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple we dive into Orgies!
We go into a brief history, what they are, what makes a good orgy, and everything in between! Chloe has always talked about her love of orgies and in this episode Mike and Chloe dig into why they're Chloe's favourite. Listen in as we talk about our orgy experience, have lots of laughs, and Chloe shares what her ideal orgy is. You'r
We're Live from SB!
Welcome back to another episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple!
In this episode, we do things a bit differently. We decided to go back to the local swingers resort but asked ourselves "How can we make this a unique experience for our listeners?" The result is a type of episode we've never done before! Listen in as we connect with old friends, meet new ones, and both Mike and Chloe have new experien
2 Fresh Pineapples!
We're back with another special guest! This time Alex, aka 2 Fresh Pineapples, sits down with us to talks all things lifestyle!
We get into the topic of dealing with trolls on social media, being taken seriously when you're on the younger side of the lifestyle, a need for more Canadian lifestyle events, and so much more! We had so much fun talking to Alex and we know you'll love her as much as we
The Taboo Show w/ Darryl
In this very special episode we sit down with Darryl from the Taboo and Everything To Do With Sex Show!
We dive into what the shows are, what to expect at one of their shows, why the topic of sex is seen as "taboo" in today's society and, most importantly, if there are swingers at their shows! We had so much fun talking to Darryl and learning more about the Taboo Shows and we are so excited to sha
Cancun Boobs Cruise
We're back with the second part of our trip to Temptation Cancun! This time, it's all about The Boobs Cruise. What is the boobs cruise? Who goes on it? What goes on during the boobs cruise? We answer all of your burning questions and talk about our experience when we went on the boobs cruise in Cancun. It is not an exaggeration when we say it got WILD. Hope you enjoy!
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Our Temptation Review
It's finally here! After months of talking about it, we finally got to go on our trip to Temptation Cancun. Listen in as we review the resort, the food, the parties and, most importantly, answer the question "Are there swingers at Temptation?!" We promise you're not going to want to miss this episode!
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Its Baaaaack!
After years of anticipation, one of our favourite clubs is finally reopening. But did it live up to the expectations? Listen in as we share our experiences and reconnect with old friends.
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Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships from Sex Ed with DB
This bonus ad-free episode is a 10 minute teaser from one of our favorite sex-ed podcasts Sex Ed with DB. DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positive parenting, unraveling what it means and how to a
Club Night!
In this episode, we were fortunate enough to have a last minute night out. We talk through what it's like to plan a night out, what makes a fun night at a lifestyle club, and how we feel about going to clubs after almost 10 years in the lifestyle. You don't want to miss this.
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The Mojas Adventures
In today's very special episode we sit down with Jay and Bella, aka The Mojas!
Jay and Bella join Mike and Chloe to talk about their journey in the lifestyle, their experience at Secrets Hideaway, and how their dynamic led them to writing their own erotic novel: "More: Hotwives and Husbands - The Adventure Begins".
This was one of our favourite episodes to record and we're sure you'll enjoy it as
Same Lifestyle, New Feelings
After weeks of anticipation, we finally got to go to another house party! We had lots of steamy fun, made some new friends, but also had to deal with some unfamiliar territory. Listen in as we reminisce on a very fun and interesting evening that led to new feelings and views on what the next step in the lifestyle is for Mike and Chloe.
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Fireside Chat with Angelique
In this episode we sit down with Angelique! You may remember her from our last episode, but today we get down to the nitty gritty. Tune in and listen as Angelique learns all about the lifestyle, including some of Chloe's wilder moments.
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Bad Experiences featuring a Special Guest
We all have bed experience, both in and out of the lifestyle. The key is what you do after, and what you learn about yourselves during these times that'll determine what you do next. Mike and Chloe discuss a couple of bad experiences that stand out and how they navigated it, with a special guest in the studio!
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Coming Out to Vanilla Friends
Have you ever considered telling your vanilla friends that you're in the lifestyle, but unsure how they'll react? Well, we've done it. More than once! Listen in while we look back at the times we've told our vanilla friends, and what happened afterwards...
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Valentines In Niagara - Day 2
The party continues! Listen in to day 2 in Niagara. If you thought day 1 was fun, we promise you that day 2 blows it out of the water. Magicians, comedians, and lots of sex. Day 2 had it all!
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Valentines In Niagara - Day 1
It's finally here! Valentines in Niagara! After talking about it for months, we finally got to go to the hotel takeover for Valentine's day. Day 1 got pretty hot and wild. There was a lot of dancing, a lot of sexy encounters, and Chloe tried a few things she's never done before.
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Swinging 101
Ever thought about joining the lifestyle but unsure how to start or what to do? We got you. On this episode we do things a little differently and talk about how we would approach the lifestyle as newbies if we knew everything we know now.
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The Gatsby Party
Come with us to the Gatsby party! In this episode we revisit a party that did not end the way we expected it to and Chloe overcomes her fears. Plus, we share an update on our upcoming trip to Desire in 2024.
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Thank You!
Happy Holidays! We wanted to stop by and say "Thank You" to everyone! And also make a special announcement...
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A VERY Happy Holidays
Despite some initial reservations, we decided to go to a holiday house party and enjoyed every minute of it. What got to connect with some old friends, make some new ones, and ended the night with a bang (or two).
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The Lola Episode
In this episode we have a special guest joining us. That's right, it's the infamous Lola! Listen in as we have a fireside chat with Lola. We dig into her initial reaction when we first told her, she asks some hard hitting questions, and we finally get the answer we've all been asking: Is she a swinger?!
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We’re Back! It’s The Boat Party!
After a brief hiatus, we’re back—and we’ve got an unforgettable story to share! In this episode, we take you on an incredible journey starting with a topless boat cruise, where the fun and the views were absolutely amazing. The excitement didn’t stop there, as we capped off the day with an even better evening at a swingers club, full of new connections and unforgettable memories. Plus, Chloe share
The Latin Party
We dusted off our dancing shoes and headed to a Latin-themed party for a night of fun, dancing, and unexpected surprises! In this episode, we talk about our unforgettable time at the party—how we danced the night away, made some new connections, and had an unforgettable play session. Tune in for a wild ride of rhythm, laughter, and a few close calls!
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Spa Day Shenanigans
We had a couple of days off and decided to take a little getaway—well, sort of. Instead of a traditional spa, we found our own version of relaxation and fun! In this episode, we share all the details of our adventurous day, from the relaxing moments to the unexpected shenanigans that followed. Join us as we talk about how we made the most of our time off, proving that a little spontaneity can lead
Our Unicorn Experience
In this episode, we dive into our experiences inviting a female into our sex life—the elusive unicorn. We share the highs, the challenges, and everything in between as we explore this exciting dynamic. From the excitement of the first encounter to the lessons we’ve learned, we break down what it’s really like to introduce a third person into the mix. Tune in for an honest and fun conversation abou
Did We Just Become Best Friends?!
While meeting new people is always exciting, some connections stand the test of time and become an unforgettable part of our lifestyle journey.
In this episode, we’re reflecting on the friendships that have truly stood out—the ones that remind us why this community is so special. Sit back and listen as we share stories about the incredible bonds we’ve built along the way, because at the end of the
It’s Mike’s Birthday!
Come sit with us as we recount the unexpected events that led to a wild birthday celebration for Mike.
We share the unexpected challenges we faced and how, despite the odds, the night turned into an unforgettable experience for everyone involved. You are invited to join us as we relive the excitement and surprises of that memorable evening.
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Nothing Like a Good Old Kiss
In this episode, we share a surprising discovery from a recent date—they were not into kissing other couples! This realization got us thinking about how important kissing is to our connection and reminded us that, even after eight years together, there’s always more to learn about ourselves and each other. Join us for this candid and eye-opening chat!
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We’re Officially Swingers
Join us as we discuss some of the memorable dates we went on at the beginning of our lifestyle experience. We met some incredible people and, ultimately, had our first full swap — well, one of us swapped before the other!
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Our First Swingers Club!
Welcome to Diary of a Swinging Couple! In our very first episode we talk about how the idea of swinging came up, the research we did (or didn't do), and a visit to our very first swingers club!
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